Mon, 29 Dec 2008 2:09 am [心理測驗]看看你的愛情觀 [心理測驗]看看你的愛情觀 看看你的愛情觀
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如果有人和你同時愛上一個人，而你非常愛這個人，這時你會如何做呢？

Ａ不擇手段，要得到這個人的愛
Ｂ讓這個人去選擇，自己不做積極爭取
Ｃ自己主動放棄
Ｄ不在乎結果，只是積極爭取，表露自己的真心

分析

● A.不擇手段，要得到這個人的愛
會不擇手段獲得愛情的人，表示你的愛情觀中有很深的自卑感和自我中心觀。因為有自卑感，所以外在表現出來是絕不能被拒絕，也不能輸給別人，至於是不是真的愛對方，那就很難講了。而且，由於你一向是依照自己的意志行事，很少去尊重別人的意見，甚至是愛人的想法，所以你會不擇手段地獲得愛人，是屬於比較自我為尊的人。


● B.讓這個人去選擇，自己不做積極爭取
如果你選擇這個答案，表示你是個君子，而且是真正愛對方，尊重對方的意見。
你的這種愛情心理很健康，因為愛情不是一廂情願的，你知道愛情的本質，所以你會尊重愛人的選擇。就算落選了，你也無怨無悔，還會祝福對方，是個很看得開的情人。


● C.自己主動放棄
一遇到情敵，還沒打戰就主動放棄的人，對自己的愛相當沒有信心，而且你的愛情觀是屬於被動式，隨緣式的態度。
你不但對自己沒有信心，對愛人也很沒信心，所以你總是往壞的方面想，當然不戰而敗。像你這種人的愛情態度，很難找到一個適合你的情人，因為你不會主動爭取愛，就算有人愛你，也會覺得沒有安全感。


● D.不在乎結果，只是積極爭取，表露自己的真心
選這個答案的人，或許深知真愛是一種犧牲。這種人在心理上來講，不是屬於那種沒有自信的人，而是對自己的感情負責，不論這段感情是否有結果，他總是要真心的付出，對得起對方，對得起自己的良心，無怨無悔。所以，這種人是把感情放在一個超然的角度，不要僵求愛情就是套牢對方的想法，是一個比較達觀，也比較不受傷害的做法。這種人或許曾經受傷，不然就是多愁善感，對於愛情總是會保留一些，不會整個人栽進去。 

0 comments, 41 reads Sat, 27 Dec 2008 6:03 pm 男人 女人 男人 女人

男人 @訂婚前好像---孫子     對女友百依百順,關心有加，忍氣吞聲。  @訂婚後好像---兒子    已經開始頂嘴，開始有個人的意見。
@結婚後好像---老子    已經變成名符其實的老爺，由他發號施令。 
                                                                                   
女人
@訂婚前好像---燕子       愛怎麼飛就怎麼飛，不受拘束自由自在。
@訂婚後好像---鴿子      雖然能飛，但必須回家。
@結婚後好像---鴨子        再也不能亂飛，祇有看家守著老子。
  有人說，一個人過了二十五歲就該為自己的外貌負責任；我想，男人最應該為女人的外貌負責任。

一個清麗脫俗的女人跟 了一個俗不可耐的男人，日子久了，女人也會變得很庸俗，她的五官沒有改變，皮膚依然白皙，但是她的氣質總是比不上從前了。

我們總是被我們所愛的東西定型，一個女人愛上一個怎樣的男人，她就會變成一個怎樣的女人；女人不 美，是男人的責任。

一個本來很漂亮的女人愈來愈憔悴，那麼，一定是她的男人待她不好，
她有 憂傷，才會失去光彩。主题： 几米-新作-《夫妻》
他是个哑巴，虽然能听懂别人的话，却说不出自己的感受.她是他的邻居，一个和外婆相依为命的女孩。她一直喊他哥哥。他真象个哥哥，带她上学，伴她玩耍，含笑听她唧唧喳喳讲话。他只用手势和她交谈，可能她能读懂他的每一个眼神。从哥哥注视她的目光里，她知道他有多么喜欢自己。
他们从小一起玩耍，一起长大。后来，她终于考上了大学，非常开心。他便开始拼命挣钱，然后源源不断地寄给她。她从来没有拒绝。 终于， 她毕业了，参加了工作。然后，她坚定地对他说：'哥哥，我要嫁给你！'
他象只受惊的兔子逃掉了，再也不肯见她，无论她怎样哀求。她这样说：'你以为我同情你吗？想报答你吗？不是，我12岁我就爱上你了。'可是，她得不到他的回答。
有一天，她突然住进了医院。他吓坏了，跑去看他。医生说，她喉咙里长了一个瘤，虽然切除了，却破坏了声带，可能再也讲不了话了。病床上，她泪眼婆娑的注视着他。于是，他们结婚了。很多年，没有人听他们讲过一句话。他们用手，用笔，用眼神交谈，分享喜悦和悲伤。他们成了相恋男女羡慕的对象。人们说，那一对多么幸福的哑夫妻啊。
爱情阻挡不了死神的降临，他撇下她一个人先走了。人们怕她经受不住失去爱侣的打击来安慰她。 她收回注视他遗像的呆痴目光，突然开口说：'他还是走了。'谎言已揭穿了……
人们惊讶之余，都感叹不已，这是一份多么执着的、深厚的、像童话一样的爱呀！从此，她不再讲话，不久也离开了人世。
相恋中的男女仍会拿他们当作谈论的话题，他们常说，你听过那对哑夫妻的故事吗？默默爱你，直到永远……

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