I can be an ordinary girl. But if I dare to accept the things that I truly like but different from others, will rather make me unordinary. Why would I need to follow and be the same like others,if I dont like it? Why would I ignore to listen to my heart? Why would I have to care about what people think of me, as long as I don't ignore it. That should be the way to present myself and stand out from the crowd. The ability to stand out should be to be different in a way.
If you are looking for a wife as a maid, sure the kampung girl will be the best choice !
Lets assume generally city girls are smart women, who have their financial flexibilty. A woman who less likely to gun on the man wallet. A woman who have her hobbies . A woman who have own friends. A woman who have a good job, who are busy with her work. A woman who don't have the time to nag on you, who understand your workload, who less likely to take it personal if you spend more time in your work. If Im a guy for sure, I will pick the city girl.
My doubts on we girls. Why do we girls need to marry a guy for financial security, not love? How are we going to manage and secure our financial marriage if it is depending on someone? If it does, we are taking a big risk of relying on someone to finance.
Personally, I see marriage is a choice, not an obligation. I want to be a woman who have an equal partner with whom to share life. Instead, a woman to drain on my man hard-earned money. When I get my good salary means I can be more selective, to marry for compatibility, love or companionship. It motivate me that I need to work smart and earn hard everyday for myself, for my own life! This is whats on my mind right at this moment.
Mr Foo, you can get the answer from the movie, Up in the air. Few days ago, I went for that movie.
Because everyone need a co-pilot - quote from the movie
It's so true...you can easily claim that you don't mind being alone for the rest of your life but you are actually lying! You can't live alone...you need a companion...you need someone to share your joy and sorrow...and as you age, you will tend to get the right co-pilot who will share your life! It's just my thought.
Hmm...the next one I want to watch Dear Galileo, International Screen. Its also a romantic comedy but mostly of my friends, they say international screen is "sien", not mainstream. International screen it is fine with me, I will still go.
